Tuesday, July 26, 2016

50 THINGS I HAVE LEARNED AND LOVED IN 50 YEARS OF LIFE

I turn 50 on Friday! I am trying to embrace this next half of my life with exuberance. If I live as long as my Memere - I still have another 52 years to go! SO...thought I'd share a few things I've learned and loved about the first 1/2 century of my life...


  1. I love the fact that I was born in Japan...at an Airforce Base...that no longer exists.
  2. I loved growing up in Aurora, Colorado during the 70's and 80's.
  3. I absolutely loved playing "Little House on the Prairie" with Helen Lawler. (I was short, had buck teeth so I was always half-pint.)
  4. I learned that I could ride my bike for a bit of a distance - like to the Aurora Mall (8 miles round trip) or to church (18 miles round trip) - however I can't do it anymore...remember, Ohio, bike trip fail - too late at night, bike path was dark and barely made it to the ice cream shop - but enjoyed that ice cream and a CAR ride home from friends.
  5. I love that my Catholic education afforded me amazing grammar teachers who beat those rules into my head so soundly that I still know them today. (Thanks Mrs. Blair)
  6. I've learned that I am somewhat naive and gullible...still.
  7. I learned that being a single parent is HARD WORK (even though my tour was brief.)
  8. I learned that WORDS become ingrained in a soul and cause you to do things that don't make sense. It's hard to get them out once they're in. 
  9. I've learned that GOD IS GOOD.
  10. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE living in small towns.
  11. I love nature walks. (not hikes...just walks...)
  12. I love sunrises and sunsets - the beauty, the colors, love it all!
  13. I learned that prayers of righteous people prevail (and help bring you to a saving knowledge of Jesus. Thanks Glenella!)
  14. I learned GOD IS PERSISTENT.
  15. I learned that once you drink of the Living Water you have an insatiable desire for more...not thirsty, but longing! 
  16. I have learned that we are going to make mistakes in life - lots of them - always ask for forgiveness and take responsibility for them. 
  17. I learned that staying HUMBLE is hard work! 
  18. I love God's beauty displayed in nature. 
  19. I learned to always rise to challenges presented and give God the glory.
  20. I learned that I NEED JESUS!
  21. I've learned if you think you can't you're probably right, however, HE can! 
  22. I love that when I'm living for Him my life is NEVER boring!
  23. I love young people and their energy and exuberance are contagious. 
  24. I love photography...of abstract items and candids of people.
  25. I learned that 25 years of marriage is a huge milestone that should be celebrated. :)
  26. I love having four daughters - it's a blessing and I am sad for the people who feel sorry for us. (If only they could have seen our amazing family!)
  27. I learned that when moving across country you must PURGE (done it twice - SO FREEING!)
  28. I've learned that SIMPLICITY is also freeing. 
  29. I love adventures on random backroads through ghost towns. yep! 
  30. I've learned GOD IS FAITHFUL.
  31. I learned HOSPITALITY is the HEARTBEAT of our home.
  32. I love having an autoimmune disease because it is a constant reminder that I live in HIS strength alone! 
  33. I love speaking to groups of women and sharing the LOVE of JESUS with them.
  34. I learned relationships take work and time and love...lots of love!
  35. I learned that losing your health can be devastating and fortifying all at the same time.
  36. I've learned GOD CONVICTS in the best possible ways.
  37. I've learned FAMILY is IMPORTANT! 
  38. I've learned unconditional love is as much a blessing to give as it is to receive.
  39. I've learned you can put a city girl on a farm and she will LOVE it!
  40. I love DOGS - been unreasonably fearful of them since I was five and had a german shepherd come after me - but since we took on service dog training - through Lilith, I have come to love animals and LOVE our two sweet dogs, Sadie and Ryder you are AMAZING! 
  41. I learned some things never change...I STILL LOVE CHOCOLATE!
  42. I love my silver gray hair! 
  43. I learned about SHEMA - the great commandment - to Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength and to Love your neighbor as yourself. And with SHEMA you remind yourself of this commandment three times a day - a great practice (you should try it sometime! :)
  44. I've learned I love to write and that I am afraid to write a book because I fear rejection and I need to get over myself.
  45. I've learned healing takes time.
  46. I've learned to love fiercely because our days are numbered.
  47. I've learned that you lose a bit of inhibition as you age and say things you never thought you would...ever.
  48. I love taking my family with me wherever I go whenever possible. (Loved doing that when they were young. Love it still!)
  49. I've learned a good marriage takes intentionality and perseverance and is SO WORTH IT!
  50. I've learned people still love you even if you're OLD. hehe!